I am maybe perhaps not into topping—but lots of other trans women can be. We asked some (and some right guys who bottom) exactly exactly what it is like for them.
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Welcome to MTF & DTF, a month-to-month intercourse, love, and relationship column where Sessi Kuwabara Blanchard chronicles the amorous goings-on she is interested in (specially, her very own).
There are two main factors why i really do not top: One, topping provides plenty of work, and I also choose not to ever work up a perspiration. Two, I’m a non-op trans girl, additionally the position that is only I’m in once I penetrate someone with my penis is certainly one of existential vulnerability.
I’ve passed of many needs to top because We felt like my womanhood was at stake. I would be moving away from the sexual expectation to which straight cis women are held: to be penetrated if I were to leave the bottom. I to him when I do top, my partner’s desire feels more ambiguous: What am?